Christian spiritual formation is a lifelong, intentional cooperation with the God-initiated process of inward and outward transformation of our lives and our world to be like Jesus. Often referred to in the New Testament as sanctification, it is guided by a centuries-old Christian spiritual tradition and takes shape (form) in specific practices and in a community of faith.
We long for Pastors and leaders to maintain a holistic approach to life and ministry through physical emotional and spiritual health. A significant part of this pursuit is to encourage districted pastors to explore spiritual formation for their own soul that will overflow into their lives and ministry.
Below you will find resources to support the goal of maintaining a holistic approach to life and ministry. If you have any questions, interests please contact Rev. Mike Kennedy our Spiritual Formation Curator.
What is Spiritual Direction?
At times called spiritual companionship, soul care, or soul friendship, this practice has been a means of grace and a tool for discerning the activity of the Holy Spirit throughout Christian history.
During this hour of prayerful conversation, one person (a spiritual director) helps another person (the directee) grow in awareness to God’s activity in her/his life. As in counseling, there is an ethic of strict confidentiality observed. However, unlike counseling or coaching, spiritual direction does not attempt to steer toward a particular outcome or solution.
Need help beginning your spiritual direction journey?
If you are interested in spiritual direction, but would like more information, help identifying a director, or financial assistance to begin, please let us know by filling out the Spiritual Direction Interest Form.
Soul Care Retreats
Soul Care Retreats are one-day gatherings throughout the year created for pastors and ministry leaders who carry responsibility, attend constantly to others, and rarely have unhurried time with God. This day offers a rhythm of silence, prayer, guided reflection, and spaciousness—to encounter God right where you are at
You will be welcomed into a calm, supportive environment where the pace is intentionally unhurried. The day is designed to be accessible for those who have never participated in a personal retreat before, with structure, guidance, and optional spiritual direction available throughout.
[Registration Link: coming in July]
Ruth Haley Barton defines a retreat this way, “retreat in the context of the spiritual life is an extended time apart for the purpose of being with God and giving God our full and undivided attention.”
A beginning reflection on a theme offered by the retreat facilitator.
Individual spiritual direction is available during the day until spots are filled.
Ample space for personal quiet & reflection as the day is held in silence.
Lunch will be provided and light snacks.
Time for communal sharing as we close our day together.
Many of us intend to be still, to listen, and to make space for God in our daily lives. Yet bodies shaped by urgency and responsibility often need a shared rhythm to slow down and settle. These retreats provide that rhythm—offering a communal experience of some silence and rest that helps open us to deeper listening, both together and later in personal prayer.
This retreat is for Christian leaders who carry the responsibility of caring for others and are in need of rest themselves. If you serve as a pastor, board member, small group leader, or in any ministry leadership role within your church community, you are welcome.
The fee per person for this retreat is $25. We will send more information on how to pay with your registration confirmation email.
If you have never taken one before this is a great place to begin! You will have time to chat in the beginning and as you reflect at the end of your time together. There is also individual spiritual direction available throughout the day until spots are filled. We encourage you to give this type of retreat a try and simply notice how it feels!
Rev. Dr. Julene Tegerstrand is a writer, educator, and spiritual director whose work explores how the slow work of spiritual formation prepares us to meet conflict with grace. For her, Advent is not only a season of waiting but of becoming, of learning to hold tension, listen deeply, and respond from the grounded peace of Christ.
Julene recently co-founded Everyday Peacemaking with her husband, Steve Tumolo, to help Christian leaders cultivate the inner resources needed for the hard and holy work of transforming conflict. She believes discipleship and conflict are intertwined practices of holiness where formation meets the courage to love in difficult places.
A former professor of Intercultural Studies at Eastern Nazarene College, Julene now teaches classes on the inner life, spiritual direction, pilgrimage, and conflict transformation at Northwest Nazarene University and Nazarene Theological Seminary. Her Substack, Human Is a Verb, invites readers to explore what it means to become deeply human in turbulent times through reflection, theology, and storytelling.
Julene offers one-on-one and group spiritual direction and welcomes new clients. She and Steve are also available to collaborate with churches and organizations seeking to grow in the ministry of reconciliation and everyday peacemaking.
Retreat Spaces for Pastors & Ministers
Below are some retreat locations that pastors can use for personal retreats, sermon preparation, or just to get away for restoration. Sometimes these are offered at a discounted rate for those in ministry. Other times, we've just found them to be a meaningful and sacred space. If you know of such a place within our district, please let us know. Here are a couple you may be interested in. Reach out directly to the location for more information.
Locations:
Sabbath House - Ludlow, MA Faith Community Chapel Church of the Nazarene
Rolling Ridge - North Andover, MA
Glastonbury Abbey - Hingham, MA
Wixson Ministry Cabin - Tuftonboro, NH (available for at-will donation)
Mirror Lake Retreat Center - Milan, NY (in conjunction with the Metro District Church of the Nazarene)
North Lake Tahoe - Kings Beach, CA (in conjunction with the Sacramento District Church of the Nazarene)
Our denominational seminary's Center for Spiritual Formation is now open and has a wealth of resources and opportunities available.